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Fight of all, fight for all💪

At a sensitive time such as this, some people are so much concerned with tribal conspiracy theory instead of fighting as Nigerians with one voice. The bad governance we are speaking against today does not only affect the Southerners, it's to every Nigerian home or away. It may not bother you as it does to me how we get to recycle the same people in governance. They come disguised as saviours on a different political platform whereas it's no different from the other and then we approve of them thinking they'll do better. Wow! See them shocking us one by one. Nigeria is sixty years old for crying out loud and yea, we should enjoy good lives as Nigerians. How annoying it is when I meet staunch followers of a particular leader and their level of reasoning still shows how blindfolded they are to see the obvious flaws. Like how can one out of hundred person keep saying that one leader is doing well when it's otherwise? Mehnnnn You mean to say the remaining ninety nine are sen

Your health and You✔

  Knock knock! May I come in?😂 Gbam, I'm in already. Hmmmmm. The past week has been a battle for me, from malaria to cough to cold to lack of appetite and all. Finally, I came out stronger. Wait, what were you thinking? I caught you, it's not corona virus o. I'm fully convinced that good health is underrated. You move freely, eat anything, sleep for long hours, wear sleeveless cloth and just live at too much of a liberty. Then sickness handicaps one to be so much of a selective eater. Did I even say eat? You may not be able to eat anything at that moment. Temperature gets to a hundred degrees Celsius, then every usual activities become odd. I couldn't eat good food because there was no appetite, all I could honestly take was pap and milk or beverage. Gosh! It wouldn't have been an option if I was fine. So many times, we need to be grateful for blessings money can't buy, good health is one big deal. For days you really want to drip, you could bend to iron your c

My SARS experience🕴

  Did I share my police harassment story with you? I guess I didn't  Well, as much as I always try to evade addressing the negative sides in the police force because of the people I have there, I won't hesitate to speak now. I posted something on my WhatsApp status on Sunday when I saw the news that SARS has been dissolved and the caption reads thus ''FG finally shenk SARS, our boyfriends are free now.'' The reaction of people really surprised me when some started questioning me to know whether I'm dating a yahoo boy. Some even went to the extent of accusing me of being a party to fraud. Lol, I was like ''what the feck!'' SARS do not only chase after yahoo boys, they harass you when you look too good to be true.  Okay wait, you saw the comedy skit of a guy who defined SARS? Dread, iPhone, laptop, chains, designer wears et cetera. How many is my body that SARS officer is stopping me? So it happened like this o, I took a bike from Sango to Iwo

Manipulative people!!!❌

Chai. Would you imagine yourself in this kind of situation where you pay a visit to someone's house, you were offered a meal but you declined politely because you didn't want to betray your stomach at that time. The people now responded with ''you don't want to eat because our food is not sweet ahbi.''  You don't even need to imagine that because I'm sure it must have happened to you several times if you're a Nigerian. Honestly speaking, you would want to dissuade them off that thought and you might even find yourself trying to explain the reason why you have declined the offer, maybe to say ''it's not like that ma'am, I'm fasting or I didn't mean to say No to your offer, I just ate a plate of rice on my way here not long ago'' and so on. Watch out! Those people might not know what they've done but that's a straightforward example of what a manipulative person does. You find yourself trying to ''sha

Let's get personal😉

Hiyaaa Happy new week. Guess you're fine right?? If not, I bet you can always talk to me and I'll be sure to give my rapt attention. And yea, where are the icons o? it's still BBN lockdown celebration mode and I'm congratulating Laycon. If only we can share the money together or I should goan do a video claiming I'm pregnant for him nih🤔 since everyone is clinching with him already. Lol. Don't mind me o You will permit me to type this as the spirit leads tonight because I'm stressed already. You know that moment that you're anxiously waiting for school resumption  then school resumes and you become quite reluctant to travel immediately.  So there's this stuff I would like to share with you. Wait o, lemme drink water😂 Just calm down ehn It's not that serious. You know I told you I want us to get personal? I would just like to know what you would have done if you were in my shoes o. As you know, I'm a radio baby. I love doing the talking, whe

People-pleaser trap🙇🙎

 ''Well, I really do not take alcohol but I don't want you to feel bad if I reject your offer, I'll take a bottle.'' ''I don't want the pastor to see me as a lazy youth, I would have to join the Sunday School department then.'' Gosh, like I don't get. Must you be so loyal to every person that you can't say NO to pressure? . . few of the lines above exemplifies how we sometimes react to situations cowardly. How often do you please people? Many times! Yes, many times! Let me make it plain enough: Any moment you bow completely to someone else's opinion or suggestion about you without questioning, you've fallen inside the people-pleaser trap. I must confess to you that I was a victim of this for quite a few number of years even though I pretend to be rebellious, I accept people's opinion of me hook, line and sinker. Those times ehn, when I see my friends or people I know going astray, I couldn't bring myself to correct the

Attaching conditions🔛

On this day years back, someone collected the fine wrist watch he bought for me because I refused to kiss him at the bus stop. You think it's no big deal? well, it is to me. I guess he would probably be laughing at himself now if he comes across this. God knows as naive I was then, I wouldn't just do what I was told without knowing why. Like you don't get? Like why should I kiss you in public? Is it that you've struck a deal with someone watching telling the person I would probably succumb to doing that? Even if you had wanted that, why was it not indoor? Shey we are in America nih? Kiss o not even a peck or a hug? Well, I won't be particular about the kiss but I'm seriously concerned about removing the wrist watch that was gifted to me already. Gosh, I don't know if anyone enjoyed using 2go like I did because I met a quite number of people. Some, we are still cool, some have gone with the tides of life. Lol So, I met this guy in one of the 2go rooms and we