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Complacency is a bad energy 🤔

Yaaaaay💃I'm so excited to be writing this to you again. Read through please 🙏🙏 Ever heard of the word COMPLACENCY? Well, it's simply of feeling of satisfaction with yourself or with a situation, so that you do not think any change is necessary according to the Oxford Advanced Learner's Dictionary, 8th edition. This feeling is so common that some people do not think it's wrong to live life with such a mentality. It might not be our wish at first but when people around start hailing us, the feelings set in and we convince ourselves that "for these people to have noticed what I've done, I think I've reached the climax" That's a red flag because being better is a journey not a destination. Maybe I should explain better, it's when you feel so relaxed and contented about yourself or what you've achieved and just feel "that's enough" even when there is a room to do better. People tend to hide under the saying "do yo

Smart way to handle criticism😎

Many a time we hear words like "that was so bad of you" "you did rubbish" "I was expecting you to have done something better, that was whack" "you look so ugly" blablabla and we might just feel bad about ourselves or what we've done and we get discouraged to even try further. Smiles, I really do not want to sound like a motivational speaker, obviously, I'm not. Just felt an urge to share this with you. The greatest criticism comes from intimate or I rather put close people because they are the ones that could talk straight to our faces. At times, they take us for granted and just hurl unpleasant words as they like not minding the effects. Criticisms are good as they help us to guage our stand, I mean positive ones. They are alot of people that are already bitter thereby looking for whom to transfer their aggressions to. So, when you ask them how your last presentation was or how your make up looks, they would be quick to point

Maximize your time now🤗

Hello love❤ How do you do? I guess you've been doing some sorts of rethinking this period? Though it's one thing to think about ways to solve problems at this time, it's another thing to activate it. I facilitated a session on a whatsapp group about a week and some days ago where I spoke on how we can maximise to internet during this time of the COVID-19 pandemic. It was quite burdensome to realize some people youths to be precise, only jump from Whatsapp to Facebook to Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat, tiktok and YouTube. These media are good enough for us but when we are so addicted it, we'll realize we have little or no time left to do important things. Getting employed after the pandemic could be a little bit tough except you've possessed key digital skills in this century. For those that are employed already, it might require more efforts to be up and stay up. The rate at which the cases increase indicates there is likely going to be lockdown or sho

A quick gist for you 💋

Hello fam ❤, I've missed you. I'm  sorry I've not been able to post anything this past week, I've been so engaged with some few things and I'm sure you would want me to share with you too.  Can you spot my Ankara design face mask? It's a three layer face mask with filter, that makes it different from the regular one layer satin masks.💃 Before I even proceed, how's the easing of the Lockdown in your side? The trending hashtag today is #Maythe4thbewithyou, smiles.... You saw that too?  The Lockdown hasn't been lifted, it was just eased, know the difference please🙏 if you really do not have anything to do out there, kindly stay at home because it's the most guaranteed way to live at this time. If at all, you have to be out, maintain social distance, wear face mask and sanitize.  Back to what I intended to share with you,  I'm really not going to make it lengthy so we both can enjoy the flow at this time.  I read a bo