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Time check🕕


On the part of self assessment, are you doing worse or better? Can you be sincere with yourself please?


To be honest, setting goals is easy but working in tandem with that goal is a bit hard.


Let me remind you in case you've forgotten of the resolution(s) you made in the beginning of this year. Remember how you listed this and that, what you'll stop and you'll start, what you planned to do and how you intend achieving it. 


You must have been so up to it in first few days of January but can you see June has wrapped up and we've moved to the second half of the year in no time, what's up with all those things?


Maybe I should kukuma do aproko about a girl called Lollycious. This is meant to be confidential, please don't tell her o.


So, it happened that when she was checking through her resolution list, she's supposed to have read at least 12 books by June (i.e minimum of 2books per month) but you see her ehn, she has only read 3, thinking she would still meet up before the year rolls up with 24 books altogether. Lielie.


As she is presently, she can hardly read a book in a month. Omoooooh. While assessing herself recently, she realised her reading momentum isn't balanced any longer.


Away from her matter sha. My nigga, with the look of things, are you on track or out?


I hope you know that self assessment is self evaluation and appraisal. Just before others do that for you, you should be able to grade yourself.


Self assessment could be done weekly, biweekly, monthly, quarterly, twice a year or however way you want it. By the way, it should be regular. The koko of the matter is for you to take time to rate yourself.


It's not really okay to just live a roller coaster life, there should be moments of pause and reasoning. The moments where one juxtaposes what is happening to what one really is doing. It is a time check moment.


I really do not have much to say because I'm not you and you're not me, of course. But I'm only bothered about your progress. Pause and think about it, are you really what you ought to be doing or lemme say what you've proposed in your mind to do?


Those things you have promised yourself not to do ever again, hope it's not as if you're still engaging in them consciously or unconsciously?


And the things you have made up your mind to do, how far? Shey you don start ahbi I should mind my business? Lol. You know I can't mind my business fully. 


I want this to serve as a reminder for you and me. Don't compromise, don't be complacent, don't go back to what you've once disregarded.


Guys, do well to assess yourself more often. Be careful to spot the changes within you and don't waste time in adjusting the negatives. It's half of the year already and yeah, you can still be a better you.


Don't forget I sell men's fabrics and for your information, Ileya (Eid) promo is going on sha. www.instagram.com/lollycious_d_clothier


Virtual hugs FAM 🤗🤗🤗


Comments

  1. This got me oo😪😪
    Thanks Lollycious for this piece.
    Your write-ups come at the right time.😪😘💖.

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