Teenage LoveyDovey🥰

 I don't know if it's me that I'm not serious with my life or the world is just turning upside down. 

I could vividly remember how secondary school child's play/ love life looked like, it was a low-key something and even if you're a free person with your parents, it still had limitations of what they could know about your so-called love/lust life.

All we see nowadays is just love in tokyo of these teenagers, proposals, matching outfits and all sort of public display of affection. Issokae.  

I went out today in a public transport and a girl was sitting next to me, she was on uniform so it's obvious she's a secondary school student. I described her as a girl not just because of her looks but other things kinda showed she may be between 14-17 years at most. Then her phone rang and I saw "Ife Ayemi" with  several love emojis.  

I sha cannot block my ears, all the conversation was entering my ears not that I was eavesdropping o. From what I heard the guy is in a tertiary institution and the girl was asking him when he would come around that she has missed him so much blablabla.

Well, I'm not the saint here cos I did too but not even in secondary school. It started about 2 years after secondary school. In my own case, I didn't change the person's name to anything sweet. Because the fear of my phone  ringing in the sitting room and I'm in the bedroom and daddy or mummy is now trying to help with my phone and they now see nonsense name displaying. Ahhhhh. I no do.

The one I can't forget is the extra cool that put me into trouble. There was electricity supply that night and daddy was around. Everywhere was silent and my voice was actually penetrating into every parts of the house. The hot girl I was, I gave two guys permission to call me in the midnight. I was already on call with one giggling, I guess the other must have been trying my line and found it was busy.

The next thing I saw was someone waving the cotton of my room entrance aside, it was daddy. Yeeeeh I have died today. I stylishly dropped the call and flung the phone under my pillow but it was late. He said "ta lo n ba soro? who are you speaking with" I said nobody. He said where is your phone, was reluctant at first but I know not giving him the phone would be the worst thing. 

As I was about handling him the phone, the person I was speaking with called back, I didn't want to pick it, he mandated me to pick it and put it on loudspeaker. I used style to hang up. Then, the call of the other person I told to call me too entered. Different names, same night.

Daddy took the phone to his room. I could not sleep that night.  In the morning, I had to beg mummy to help me beg daddy. What added salt to the wound was that I was still seeking for admission that time, he kept repeating that "it's obvious I'm not serious, I want to waste my life chasing boys rather than gaining admission into tertiary education."

Well, where I'm driving at is this, am I just the  only one with disciplinarian parents or it's the teenagers we have nowadays that they've grown wings and become difficult to advice.

You can't be in secondary school and be having "Aye mi" now. That's just too early.

Looking at the girl, I couldn't put my mouth in what does not concern me cos even her parents may be aware of that but is that normal?

Please, I want to know if that your girlfriend in secondary school days is still your girlfriend up till date?

What's the probability of that kind of relationship leading to marriage?

Virtual hugs FAM🤗🤗🤗