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Let's get personal😉

Hiyaaa Happy new week. Guess you're fine right?? If not, I bet you can always talk to me and I'll be sure to give my rapt attention. And yea, where are the icons o? it's still BBN lockdown celebration mode and I'm congratulating Laycon. If only we can share the money together or I should goan do a video claiming I'm pregnant for him nih🤔 since everyone is clinching with him already. Lol. Don't mind me o You will permit me to type this as the spirit leads tonight because I'm stressed already. You know that moment that you're anxiously waiting for school resumption  then school resumes and you become quite reluctant to travel immediately.  So there's this stuff I would like to share with you. Wait o, lemme drink water😂 Just calm down ehn It's not that serious. You know I told you I want us to get personal? I would just like to know what you would have done if you were in my shoes o. As you know, I'm a radio baby. I love doing the talking, whe

People-pleaser trap🙇🙎

 ''Well, I really do not take alcohol but I don't want you to feel bad if I reject your offer, I'll take a bottle.'' ''I don't want the pastor to see me as a lazy youth, I would have to join the Sunday School department then.'' Gosh, like I don't get. Must you be so loyal to every person that you can't say NO to pressure? . . few of the lines above exemplifies how we sometimes react to situations cowardly. How often do you please people? Many times! Yes, many times! Let me make it plain enough: Any moment you bow completely to someone else's opinion or suggestion about you without questioning, you've fallen inside the people-pleaser trap. I must confess to you that I was a victim of this for quite a few number of years even though I pretend to be rebellious, I accept people's opinion of me hook, line and sinker. Those times ehn, when I see my friends or people I know going astray, I couldn't bring myself to correct the

Attaching conditions🔛

On this day years back, someone collected the fine wrist watch he bought for me because I refused to kiss him at the bus stop. You think it's no big deal? well, it is to me. I guess he would probably be laughing at himself now if he comes across this. God knows as naive I was then, I wouldn't just do what I was told without knowing why. Like you don't get? Like why should I kiss you in public? Is it that you've struck a deal with someone watching telling the person I would probably succumb to doing that? Even if you had wanted that, why was it not indoor? Shey we are in America nih? Kiss o not even a peck or a hug? Well, I won't be particular about the kiss but I'm seriously concerned about removing the wrist watch that was gifted to me already. Gosh, I don't know if anyone enjoyed using 2go like I did because I met a quite number of people. Some, we are still cool, some have gone with the tides of life. Lol So, I met this guy in one of the 2go rooms and we

Oh! Not Again😭

From every sleep that I'm privileged to wake up from, I've always being optimistic and look forward to seeing this distress to have disappeared. Expectations every morning, hunger and thirst for miracles. Quick desperation for intervention and millions of ways to see if there are any short cuts to achieve desired results of GOOD LIFE. This is obviously not the Nigeria of my dream if you would ask me. Anticipation for a better tomorrow has started before I was born and it's almost a mantra that I perceive would be sung by the forthcoming generation. Policies made by government at all levels are loosing their masses-centered relevance and they are just being made anyways. The stamp duty was recently implemented followed by a new tarrif on electricity and now hike in fuel price. All these however seem to be felt more by the average Nigerians. Yes, You and Me. I want to believe the fuel price hike is a prank that would be cautioned any moment soon. Our leaders are full of hypoc

EMBER Fears and Favours🌹🌺

The countdown has just begun. This is the only time we seem to be truly awakened that the days of the year doesn't stop counting. August folds up to usher in the Ember months. You hear people say ''oga o, this year is almost gone sha'' as if the year wasn't going before now. Doubled profit making is the goal for the latter part of the year as this.  (Singing) Ember ko ma ko wa l'ebi lo Ember ko ma ko wa n'ile lo Osu ''BER BER BER'' la de Baba l'oke so wa ninu ibanuje Ember ko ma ko wa n'ile lo The lines above simply translate ''God keep our homes and extended families safe during the Ember months.'' I can't say specifically who sang that song but It's been popular ever since I was young especially at this time of the year. Very soon, everyone will start singing this Good Women song too: ''Odun n lo s'opin o baba rere (the year is going to an end good Father) F'iso re so wa o t'omo t'

My love story💓: Concluding part

Delete that carnal thought of yours o, nothing happened last time and I still had my cloth on. It was a whole week of fun and adventure. We toured the whole of Abuja, it was only Aso Rock we didn't enter😂. We had dinner on Friday with two of his closest friends and I felt at home with the way he had introduced me and respected me. Just in that week, I knew I almost added 10 pounds because I was spoilt. Kilishi was always available to eat too. The Saturday night which was my last  night, we couldn't resist the urge and so it happened. Maybe cos of the sports I do, my hymen had been broken so, no blood came out but he obviously knew it was my first time. ''Tolu, I'm so sorry this happened. You see I never intended it. I'm sorry I made you break your NSBM (No Sex Before Marriage) resolution.'' I just kept staring into the space but I realized there was no sense of guilt in me. Maybe because he was someone I so much love and cherish. I told him there was no

My love story❤: Part 4

As we drove, I noticed the FCT isn't as clumsy as Lagos is. Everywhere looked so good enough to be called Abuja. Sitting in the car, I remembered a post I had read on Facebook about Abuja guys who only have cars but no shelter. The post goes on to say these guys sleep most times in their cars and then cook up sugarcoated stories for the well-to-do ladies they meet so they can house them for a week or more. Then if their excuse doesn't add up to the lady again, they move out in search of another prey too. I saw fine cars drove by with fine guys or rather men behind the wheel and I was like ''na dem o''😂 I wasn't looking at Alfred, I was just so fascinated about the urban area. I was feeding my eyes really seriously. He was playing a foreign song but on a very low volume, I didn't even know if it was Drake or Justin Beiber. Wetin concern local pikin? Me I was just vibing to the rhythm. I'm not a fan of all these country music jere, I just like the one